What is the true me? Who am I?
An husband, A son, a brother, bhai or a Boss, or a reportee to a Boss or a friend?
Who are you. How do you know who the hell are you?. Questions like this came to me all through my life at several stages. Sometimes spending a minute or an hour or a day probing and thinking. Who am I?. What constitutes me?. Most of the times it turned out to be a frustrating exercise leaving with no answer. Religion or ashrams did come to mind..but I am firm believer of rational thought( atleast I want to be) and so the option of ashram/religion was never choosen.
Last week I went to a behavior program on relationship. Named relationship Management. One week of spending here has given an essence of what I was longing to understand. How to know myself. I was too perplexed when I heard, experienced and validated the most common sense thing. " Reality is what others see you as". You might be a mahatma or an Einstein, but to the world, you are what they see you as. As simple and as clear it might look. This gave a deeper insight into how people make perceptions and decisions. More on this in next posts. The beginning of a journey towards me which is very very far. Painfully it will be but I am geared up for this journey. All set to go.
@Mumbai airport.