Thursday, February 2, 2017

The 9,9 Journey

I started of with working on the 3 feedbacks to set the motion towards 9,9. Set myself a review mechanism to see improvements. It worked out well for last one week.

To pursue this for a longer period of time requires consistent effort.  I have to work not just on the feedback but practice all the elements of 9,9 style in all aspects of life both personal and professional.

To be contd..

Saturday, January 21, 2017

The true me

What is the true me? Who am I?
An husband,  A son,  a brother, bhai or a Boss,  or a reportee to a Boss or a friend?
Who are you. How do you know who the hell are you?.  Questions like this came to me all through my life at several stages. Sometimes spending a minute or an hour or a day probing and thinking.  Who am I?.  What constitutes me?.  Most of the times it turned out to be a frustrating exercise leaving with no answer. Religion or ashrams did come to mind..but I am firm believer of rational thought( atleast I want to be) and so the option of ashram/religion was never choosen.

Last week I went to a behavior program on relationship. Named relationship Management. One week of spending here has given an essence of what I was longing to understand.  How to know myself. I was too perplexed when I heard,  experienced and validated the most common sense thing. " Reality is what others see you as".  You might be a mahatma or an Einstein, but to the world,  you are what they see you as.  As simple and as clear it might look. This gave a deeper insight into how people make perceptions and decisions.  More on this in next posts. The beginning of a journey towards me which is very very far.  Painfully it will be but I am geared up for this journey. All set to go.

@Mumbai airport.