The true me

What is the true me? Who am I?
An husband,  A son,  a brother, bhai or a Boss,  or a reportee to a Boss or a friend?
Who are you. How do you know who the hell are you?.  Questions like this came to me all through my life at several stages. Sometimes spending a minute or an hour or a day probing and thinking.  Who am I?.  What constitutes me?.  Most of the times it turned out to be a frustrating exercise leaving with no answer. Religion or ashrams did come to mind..but I am firm believer of rational thought( atleast I want to be) and so the option of ashram/religion was never choosen.

Last week I went to a behavior program on relationship. Named relationship Management. One week of spending here has given an essence of what I was longing to understand.  How to know myself. I was too perplexed when I heard,  experienced and validated the most common sense thing. " Reality is what others see you as".  You might be a mahatma or an Einstein, but to the world,  you are what they see you as.  As simple and as clear it might look. This gave a deeper insight into how people make perceptions and decisions.  More on this in next posts. The beginning of a journey towards me which is very very far.  Painfully it will be but I am geared up for this journey. All set to go.

@Mumbai airport.